The Reverend KF Belben TD ChStJ
CF(TA)
on 14 March 2002 aged 72
The first obituary, on the right of the
photograph, appeared in B&C
98 Jun 02. The splendid full obituary, below
the photograph, appeared in The Castle.
It was reprinted in B&C 99 Dec 02, with
acknowledgement and thanks to Maj John
Hutchings and to his wife Heather who
e-mailed it!
Maj The Reverend Cf3 Ken Belben
TD ChStJ of Great Maplestead, Essex, in March 2002,
at a relatively young age, from an infection picked up in
hospital.
For many years Ken was Padre to 6 Royal Anglian (V) and a
real stalwart.
The turnout for his funeral was monumental.
A Gentleman of the Old School, he will be particularly
remembered for his playing of tape-recorded hymn tapes at
1970s camp services in an effort to get us to
sing! John Metcalfe and JLR
Click
here for a reminiscence by Gordon Reynolds concerning
those tapes played for 5 Royal Anglian (V). The Reverend Ken Belben, who died
unexpectedly in hospital on March 14th, 2002, at the age
of 72, served for many years as Chaplain to TA, ACF and
Volunteer units of the Essex and Royal Anglian Regiments.
He also regularly conducted services at the Regimental
Chapel at Warley, where his familiar presence will be much
missed.
Kenneth Frank Belben was born at the small Essex village
of Latton, near Harlow. in 1930. As a small boy he went to
Fawbert & Barnard's School, where he became very
interested in the Church of England. His Methodist
grandparents took him to Chapel, but he soon discovered
that choirboys at the Parish Church were paid 2d for choir
practice and 2s 5d for each service. Ken was quickly
converted to the Anglican Church and increased his weekly
income by 7d.
Gradually he genuinely and completely grew to love the
church services, so much so that by the age of eleven he
never wanted anything other than to be ordained a Priest
in the Church. It was a passion he never lost. Even after
he retired in 1995 he couldn't bear having a Sunday when
he didn't take one service-better still two!
As a teenager Ken went to St John's College, Harlow. Then
followed five years in the Civil Service, before going up
to Durham University to read Theology. In 1955 he was
ordained in the Diocese of Chelmsford, where he spent the
whole of his ministry. He was Curate in three East End
parishes - first at Plaistow, then Chadwell Heath and
finally at Marks Gate. In complete contrast, in 1964, Ken
was appointed Vicar of the rural parishes of Great and
Little Maplestead near Halstead. These parishes were
united in 1914, just after the Knights of the Order of St
John of Jerusalem became patrons of the living. The
Hospitallers had built a considerable estate at Little
Maplestead in the Middle Ages, and the round church was
designed especially to accommodate the Knights' own form
of worship. Ken's long association with them led to him
becoming Chaplain to the Order of St John from 1977. For
twenty years, from 1975, until retirement, he was also
Rector of Gestingthorpe.
During his ministry Ken was very active in other fields as
well. He was a local councillor, chairman of the Friends
of Halstead Hospital and clerk to the local Deanery Clergy
Chapter. He loved the village school at Great Maplestead -
the children, the teachers and the parents. As if this
wasn't enough he arranged pilgrimages to the Holy Land and
other biblical sites. On retirement in 1995, Ken and his
wife Janet went to live at Earls Colne. 'Retired' is of
course rather a loose word to apply to clergy, and to Ken
especially. He usually took one service each Sunday,
mostly at Earls Colne, and he celebrated the Eucharist one
day a month at Chelmsford Cathedral. From 1996 until his
death he helped care in succession for three groups of
parishes during their interregnums, and when he died he
was just completing a year as Chaplain to George
Courtauld, High Sheriff of Essex.
The Church of St Giles at Great Maplestead was solidly
packed for Ken's funeral, telling testament of a
highly-regarded and much-loved Parish Priest and Padre.
The Essex and Royal Anglian Regiment Associations were
represented by Col Geoffrey Morgan. Many former members of
the units served, and served in, by Ken also attended.
Ken was the devoted husband of Janet for nearly
forty-seven years, a wonderful father to his daughters
Susan and Wendy, and the super grandfather of Jemma,
Sarah, Hayley and Mark. Our deepest sympathy goes out to
them all. JEH / PS |