Obituaries
Issue 93 Dec 1999
Norfolk Section The Britannia and Castle
     

We regret to report the deaths of the following and we offer our deep sympathy to the bereaved families:

Jean and Paul at the RNRARA Christmas 98 Drinks at the home of Col and Mrs FlowerMrs Jean Boxall in Norwich on 8 Nov 1999, aged 74. After being wounded in Normandy, Paul Boxall met Jean at Beverley Hospital, Yorkshire where she was a Red Cross Nurse. They were married in July 1946. A very private lady, aptly described as 'a very nice person', Jean devoted her life to her family. The service at St Faith's was packed with mourners which included a strong contingent from the Norwich Branch. Sir David Thorne and Maj David Clarke were represented by Lady Thorne. Jean is survived by her husband Paul and four children: Michael, Elaine, Alexandra and Pamela.   JLR

Right: Jean and Paul at the RNRARA Christmas 98 Drinks at the home of Col and Mrs Dick Flower

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LCpl H Dowsett, in Braintree, Essex on 30 Jul 1999, aged 74. A member of the 1st Bn D-Day Veterans’ Association, he served in C Coy, 1 Royal Norfolk and B Coy, The Royal Lincolnshire Regts.   EV Everitt

James Exall on 11 Aug 1999, aged 77. He served with A Coy, 70th Bn and with 2 Royal Norfolk in Burma. In 1941 James received a citation from the Area Commander for shooting down a hostile aircraft while on guard duty at an airfield in Britain. (Click here for more on this.) James was discharged in 1946 due to his war wounds. A member of the London Branch, he is survived by his wife, 3 children and 6 grandchildren.   Bill Seymour

After note Apr 02 by Webmaster: See the RAF Watton page

Michael Ffinch on 14 Sep, aged 65, of cancer. Born in Kent, he spent much of his boyhood in Suffolk. Educated at Repton he did his National Service as a subaltern with The Royal Norfolk Regiment, serving in Hong Kong. His experience left him with a strong affection for the Norfolks and a repertoire of robust army ballads. He read English at St Edmund Hall, Oxford and was tutored for a time by WH Auden, who recognised Ffinch's talents as a poet. A flamboyant figure even for the 1960s in that little Bohemia which flourished in Hampstead, he wrote verses and recited them, frequently in pubs. It was a precarious existence and he once ruefully wrote of surviving in fish fingers and tinned tomatoes - a diet he shared with his flatmate, the composer Francis Shaw. Michael was a genial and witty companion who valued the spoken word as highly as the written and was a master of both. A poet, librettist, broadcaster and teacher and in later life Michael was a biographer, producing lives of Gilbert and Sullivan, GK Chesterton and Cardinal Newman. He ran a Prep School in Kent and taught at a London Comprehensive, Casterton and Sedburgh. His eclectic scholarship won respect and his eccentricity of dress and manner delighted pupils if not all of his colleagues.
He embraced Roman Catholicism and his faith was profound, passionate and enlightened. It gave him the interior stamina to endure adversity and misfortune and enhanced his natural generosity of spirit. His GK Chesterton (1986) was short-listed for the Whitbread prize. Michael felt an affinity for his subject, who was also sustained by faith. Both believed that "beer is best" although Michael would advance a good case for claret and port as lubricants of wit and imagination.
Michael was first married to Patricia Major, but that ended in divorce. He then married Patricia Kelly, who died a year ago. He is survived by two sons from his first marriage and a son and a daughter from his second.   Adapted by JLR from The Times 28 Sep 99

Thomas Gaffer of Milverton Avenue, Leicester, suddenly, after a short illness, on 22 May 1999. Thomas served with 1 Royal Norfolk and then with 1 Royal Anglian 1974-76. He completed tours of duty in Berlin, Aden, Celle, Catterick, Northern Ireland, South Arabia, Radfan and Cyprus. He received campaign medals for service in those operational theatres and his LSGC medal.
After leaving the Regular Army in 1977 he first joined a local firm of solicitors then became a successful financial consultant with Allied Dunbar.
Reading and the boating world were his greatest pastimes and he had a vast knowledge of the latter. As well as being a keen gardener, in more recent times he enjoyed wood carving and spent many an hour in his garden workshop at his lathe. Tom was a kind and loving family man and will be greatly missed by all ho knew him.
Tom is survived by his widow Patricia and daughters Elizabeth and Jane.    Mrs P Gaffer

John (AW) Mears, of Charnwood Cottage, Ashmanhaugh, suddenly, on 24 June 1999. John spent his last hours tending his beloved garden. He served with the 1st Bn Royal Norfolk Regt 1938-45. For several weeks after Reunion Dinners he would talk of the event. John was proud of his Regiment and considered that the army had made him.    Nancy Heywood
Len Ridgeon on 15 Sep 1999, aged 67. Len served for 2 years until Oct 1953. After training in Bury St Edmunds, Len was posted as a reinforcement to 1 R Norfolk via JRBD. Vickers Machine Gun trained at Hara Mura, he joined the 1st Bn in Korea, serving there with the MMG Platoon. He gained promotion and remained with the MMG Pl to complete his service in Hong Kong.
Len was well regarded, a stalwart and respected member of the Ely Korean Veterans Association. Joining in 1987 he later became Branch Chairman, an office he held for 7 years until 1998. Len was a fit, energetic and very active man until cut down by illness in April of this year.
He married Janet 41 years ago and is survived by her.    John Denny
Michael Seago, on 8 Jul 1999. An actuary with Norwich Union, he served with The Royal Norfolk Regt in India during his period of National Service 1946-48. He was President of the Norfolk and Norwich Naturalist’s Society and generous tribute was paid to his work for wildlife in East Anglia by Her Majesty’s Lord Lieutenant, Sir Timothy Colman. A regular contributor to the Eastern Daily Press and its sister papers, Michael was the author of many articles on the bird and rural life of the region. He died shortly before the publication of his definitive work 'Birds of Norfolk'.
Percy R Seago of Lowestoft on 3 Jan 1997. He served with The Royal Norfolk Regiment.
Tony Waters on 10 Nov 1999. A member of the Gorleston and Great Yarmouth Branch, he served with The Royal Norfolk and East Anglian Regiments.

Robert Wheatley of Grassmoor, Chesterfield, after a short illness, on 4 Jul 1998. Serving with The Royal Norfolk Regiment during the D-Day Landings, he was badly injured. After 2 years in hospital he learned to walk again, despite much pain. He learned to live with his disability and was able to lead a near-normal life. Robert trained as an engineer and was able to support his family. Being a member of The Royal British Legion meant a lot to him. When his wife died in 1983, Robert went to live with his son Steven and his family at Market Weighton, Yorkshire. While there he received an invitation to attend The Royal Garden Party at Buckingham Palace, a highlight of his life, and met up with former war comrades from The Royal Norfolk Regiment. In 1993 he came to live in Grassmoor, Chesterfield, with his daughter, Mrs GD Tunmore, and her husband. They were pleased to take him to Norfolk to visit the Regiment that was close to his heart. He always looked forward to the Annual Reunion Dinner and received the invitation to the 1998 Dinner which he hoped to be fit enough to attend. This was just 2 days before he died.    Mrs GD Tunmore

Bert Yarrow, suddenly, on the Isle of Wight, on 18 May 99 while on holiday with his wife and family. His funeral service was at Downham Methodist Church on 28 May 1999, followed by internment in the cemetery.
The Royal British Legion Standard was carried by Mr R Botham.
Bert was born at Ten Mile Bank and joined the TA before WW2. He served in D Coy 7 Royal Norfolk in France and was taken prisoner at St Valery in June 1940.
Bert spent 5 years as a PoW before returning home in 1945. He married Hazel in 1947 and had 4 daughters.
Most of Bert's working life was spent in Civil Engineering but the 15 years before he retired in 1984 was spent with the seed merchants John Lee Bennett of Downham.
During his retirement, Bert was a keen member of the West Norfolk Aviation Society. He enjoyed ballroom dancing, loved the sound of jazz and big band music and was a regular attender at King's Lynn Branch Reunion Dinners.
He is survived by his widow Hazel and daughters Kathleen, Margaret, Linda and Emma.
Donations at the service amounted to £330 and were shared between the Bridge Street Surgery and The Isle of Wight Ambulance Service Fund.    JDE Lane

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